HF: be super nice to them, they own vespucci and can kick us out if they want to.
VR: screw them they are assholes
So i talked for over an hour with a head guy in hf. Basically stay out of vespucci if you can help it, dont loiter there and only go in if you got a new character and want a broadsword, there are other places for the guns so get those there. If your setting up a bomber or need stuff from there dont us the tag renname yourself afterwords. If your character is already there then head out.
This is pretty much vr's fault. The hf guy said that if he gets no bad complaints for a week or so then we get free reign, its just how badly vr played us up that they have to eye us with caution.
So in short....screw vr be nice to hf.
Subject: How to deal with the other lh factions 
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